I say the word fuck a lot I admit it. Not usually on a first date, well I don't think that I do.
One thing I know I do not do is use the word fucking a lot as a verb on the first date like Bachelor #12 did.
I might say “It was FUCKING amazing” and he would say “He was FUCKING her”.
For every FUCKING cool, there were about ten him FUCKING hers.

It was too FUCKING weird to have that much FUCKING on a first date

This was the fundamental difference we could not bridge… among other things.